Have you ever wandered “Why is it that even good Christian Bible believing couples who heard clearly from the Holy Spirit before getting married still end up with the same challenges and failed marriages like our friends who do not yet believe in the word? Can you please explain this to me?”

In this book you will get the right respond to the question above, this question reminded me of Noah’s walk with God. If this question bothers you too, just relax, let me share a beautiful scripture with you, and help you plan to prevent this from happening to you and your godly spouse.

It’s a very popular story about Noah, Genesis Chapter 6 verse number 9-22, “Noah was a righteous man, blameless among the people of his time, and he walked faithfully with God. Noah had three sons: Shem, Ham and Japheth. Now the earth was corrupt in God’s sight and was full of violence. God saw how corrupt the earth had become, for all the people on earth had corrupted their ways. So God said to Noah, “I am going to put an end to all people, for the earth is filled with violence because of them. I am surely going to destroy both them and the earth. So make yourself an Ark of cypress wood; make rooms in it and coat it with pitch inside and out. This is how you are to build it: The ark is to be THREE HUNDRED CUBITS LONG, FIFTY cubits WIDE and THIRTY cubits HIGH. Make a roof for it, leaving below the roof an OPENING ONE-cubit HIGH ALL AROUND. Put a DOOR in the side of the ark and make LOWER, MIDDLE and upper decks. I am going to bring floodwaters on the earth to destroy all life under the heavens, every creature that has the breath of life in it. Everything on earth will perish. BUT I WILL establish my covenant WITH YOU, and you will enter the ark—you and your sons and your wife and your son’s wives with you. You are to bring into the ark two of all living creatures, male and female, to keep them alive with you. Two of every kind of bird, of every kind of animal and of every kind of creature that moves along the ground will come to you to be kept alive. You are to take every kind of food that is to be eaten and store it away as food for you and for them.” Noah did everything just as God commanded him.” (NIV)

Noah was 500years when he got the instructions to build the ark, and 600 years when he entered the ark with his family, this means that Noah spent 100years


listening to God and following chiefly to His instructions and directions until the ark was finished.



The relationship of a wife with the husband is such a one that must always be handled with every amount of carefulness and honor. Many wives failing to take cognizance of this fact have lost their marriages. We know that there are women that despite all they do to have their marriages succeed, don’t have understanding husbands to have it so. Some marriages fail, not that wives involved fall below average in carrying out their marital and home duties. The fact at times has been that some husbands notwithstanding their age are not mentally matured enough to have married at the time they did. This has amount to marital problems despite all that many wives do to make their husband happy and their marriages succeed. If a woman after doing her best see that her marriage succeeds and at end never did because she mistakenly married an immature husband. I mean a boy instead of a man she will in no way be blamed.

One of the biggest reasons why our good Christian marriages fail is because we take the wheel away from God after we get that YES. We go to God with all we have got when we are asking for directions before marriage, we pray endlessly, we fast day and night, and tithe all we Have, but as soon as we get the leading of the Holy Spirit, as soon as we get that YES from God concerning that potential partner we are praying about, that’s it. From that point on we don’t need God anymore, we start leaning on our own understanding of our partner, and not of Gods’ revelations.

Many marriages have had serious problems due to the wives involved doing what their husband don’t like. We have complaining husbands all over the place today from having wives who don’t satisfactorily relate with them. Wives abound insist in doing whatever they do even when they know that husband don’t like those things. Many husband no more enduring the negative things their wives do in their relationship with them have decided to start speaking out to see if there can be remedy.

Obviously, marriage is not meant to be endured but to be enjoyed but some husbands seeing what their wives do which they don’t like don’t enjoy their marriage. I quite admit that there are men that despite they complain of a lot of things their wives do which they hate; they do not help matters in their marital union.

Anyway, women are to know this secret of Dos and Don’ts which their husband love/hate so as to win his heart completely. It is in knowing these secret things that they can understand and make corrections to have his love permanently.

A marriage that has a wife that pleases the husband is the type that will successfully go far. Such marriage will ever be a blessing to the partners involve. Of course any woman that must have successful marriage must do everything to discover the secret things the husband love or hate most in other for her to avoid or do them perfectly. In doing this she will be able to realize her dream marriage. Happy reading.